i've got to say, i find myself smiling to myself more often than ever whenever i see my family get together or do and say the stupiest things. i used to not rlly care cause i always thought they will always be there for me. but a series of events over the recent years made me realise that they wont always be there. cause death is unpredictable? haha so nowadays will try to be nice to my mum and dad and of course to my sis though she can be freaking irritating at times.
i just read huimin's blog. it's true that we should not try to change ourselves to please people because if that is necessary, wouldnt we be very hypocritical. but i personally feels that sometimes, we rlly have to change to please others cause not everyone is perfect, we cant possibly expect the whole world to suit us and bear with our flaws, right. changes are necessary if we're gng to interact with them for a long time or if they're important stepping stones to us. ya i might sound selfish or whatever, but that's what life is about. we cant possibly stick to what we are now forever. because in life, there will be many different situations we have to adapt to by changing ourselves. now in sch, i find no need to please others because some of them are a bunch of morons who dont care about the feelings of others. so why should i care about them then. this is what i think, you may disagree with me.
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